Okay, guy, so why do you feel like you want/need/deserve to settle down with a “pure” woman? I’m genuinely listening. “Oh, it’s because sluts are gross.” Too vague. Do better. “Well, their vaginas are real stretched out and big.” No. “Ummmmm, they probably have a bunch of diseases?” Easy fix! Setting aside the fact that plenty of women contract STIs from monogamous partners or during “safe sex,” it sounds like your real problem here is with illness, not sex. So I assume you’d be fine dating a promiscuous woman who practiced safe sex and happened to be STI-free? “No, because I want a girl who’s traditional and family-oriented.” Having sex doesn’t mean you don’t want to have a family. It just means that you want to have sex. “Yeah, but a slut is more likely to cheat on me.” Really? Then why do couples in the Bible Belt have such a high divorce rate? “The devil, I guess?” NOPE. “I just can’t stand the thought of her getting fucked by all those other guys.” So you’re about to have sex with a woman you’re attracted to, you really want to have sex with her, but all you can think about is her getting pounded by tons and tons of dicks? That sounds like an entirely different issue. “No! I just mean that I struggle with the same powerlessness and insecurity that all human beings do, so as a coping mechanism I take advantage of our culture’s patriarchal power structure and exorcize my feelings of worthlessness by perpetuating shame-based proprietary attitudes over women’s bodies. Basically I’m obsessed with controlling women’s lives because I can’t control my own.” Oh, honey. I know.

Bored. New underwear. Felt like it. Judge me.

declaringwar:

T.L.T.L.

declaringwar:

True

declaringwar:

Wake

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I don’t want to turn any of this into poetry
but
you’re so beautiful
flowers turn their heads to smell you.

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declaringwar:

Gone

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lost-and-found-words:

Tigers Jaw - Chemicals

We are made from chemicals
But what holds us together is much more than that
You are strong, so much stronger than me
All along, ‘cause you are everything and I am nothing

We spend our summers writing songs
Of how we never make it on our own
But here we are
And I surrender
I’m running thin
You were right, ‘cause you are everything and I am nothing

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kingkii:

jackadiddlediddle:

lezbisouthernn:

she looks exactly like her dad!

Im not crying its my allergies. Im allergic to childhood pains

I’M ACTUALLY CRYING

She’s fucking gorgeous

(via lithiumbarbiedoll)

exceptence:

x

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